Tobey's a mellow cool guy. He's just a good guy. I know that's not the answer you want and I don't mean that as the political thing to say but he's a nice guy.
What I think we fear is rapid pronounced and uncontrollable changes to ourselves and because of this we have a form of personality inertia - something that resists rapid change.
Allowing yourself to smile takes 99% of the effort.
There's no love more intense than the love we have for our kids - and where...